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Kathleen Cawley's avatar

Thank you for helping us all see AuDHD with deeper insight. Please keep shining a light on this.

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Andrea Spacek's avatar

Thank you. I love you. My little JJ is on the Spectrum. Raising him with no one able to back up my understanding of what he was / what we were dealing with, especially my husband was brutal. And simultaneously coming to terms with my own ADHD, autism tendencies, sensitivities, and how they were never really honored or held. I never wanted to share this aspect of my reality because I didn’t want to Sound like a bad parent or victim. I didn’t sleep for a long time, consumed with anxiety about how to support him, how to support myself, and to understand what was “wrong”.

What’s “wrong” is that we have an idea of how our kids should be as a society, and how we should parent them. Jericho came in so I could liberate myself of all of the ways that I’ve made myself wrong my whole life - that’s what they do. They are angels.

Keep talking, Maisa. We’re listening.

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